If you want to keep your man engaged in the bedroom, here are some simple tips you can follow. Having a happy sex life is all about making the effort and trying out new things to please your partner.

Men are highly visual creatures but there also interested in their partners psychology and here we are going to show you how to use both by taking the initiative to get the man of your dreams.

In society we have seen a blurring of the traditional roles of men and women and women have started to assert themselves more in society, as well as work and more are doing so with their sex lives.

They know exactly what they want and how to get it.

Here we are going to show you how to appeal to a mans mind as much as his eyes to capture his intention.

Lets first look at dressing:

1. Dressing to impress If you want to capture a mans attention - your partner or someone you desire then its time to be sexy and feminine.

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The trick with dressing to attract is to look sexy without being tarty ( when out of the bedroom) and this involves using the usual sexy clothing but only accentuating one half of the body - NOT Both.

For example, if you have great legs show them off and use killer highs to grab a mans attention - heels are one of the biggest turn ons for men so use them, most men cant resist them.

If your bust is your asset wear a tight top to show it off but don't wear a short skirt.

The key is to be sexy get noticed, but don't look like a hooker.

In the bedroom you can be as sexy as you like!

If you think about it many men frequent lap dancing clubs and strip clubs and you will find most men in the bedroom like heels, sexy underwear and sensual fabrics such as leather, so use them to your advantage.

A women who knows how to dress will get noticed.

2. Being the hunter and taking the lead in and out the bedroom.

In society men are traditionally the hunters not women so turn the tables and become the hunter - This will appeal to men as most are simply not used to it, but its highly enjoyable for them for reasons we will explain later.

This bit of the article is all about hunting and taking control in the bedroom.

Here are some tips!

- Use sexy texts to put him off work and tell him what's in store for him.

- When he comes home from work meet in nothing but lingerie and high heels.

- Undress him to show you are the one in control.

- Use the top position and can not only satisfy yourself but relieve the pressure on him to perform so he can simply lie back and enjoy the experience.

- Use oral sex - oral sex is loved by all men and you have him exactly where you want him if you learn the art of oral sex.

- Compliment him - the fact you are in control doesn't mean you cant. It will appeal to his ego and make him feel good

- Many men are concerned about their performance in the bedroom, so calm him down and make him relax.

Ladies, we live in an equal society yet in the bedroom men are still predominately the hunters - use your femininity to hunt him down and take control of your sex life. A surprising amount of men enjoy women who are forward and get what they want - men are used to being in control and this can lead to pressure in all areas of life, not just the bedroom. So if you take control not only can you enjoy it your man probably will to.

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